“I've been at this company 6 years. Everyone says I should be a manager by now. I don't want to be a manager but I don't know what else there is.”
- Shinran1173–1263
What did you actually spend your time doing in the six years before anyone told you what you should become?
歎異抄 Tannishō, section 9·DIRECT
- Fukuzawa Yukichi1835–1901
Which specific people told you this, and what positions have they themselves reached by the same measure?
学問のすゝめ, part 16「手近く独立を守る事」(1876)·DIRECT
- Murasaki Shikibu978–1014
Who was the last actual person to say this to you, and what were their exact words?
紫式部日記 Murasaki Shikibu Nikki·STRONG INFERENCE
Where they disagree
Shinran needs no answer before the refusal holds; Fukuzawa needs the source of "everyone" named first. For Shinran, the missing alternative is not a stage to pass through — it can simply stay. For Fukuzawa, the same absence is what happens when a household adds a third storey because the neighbor's house has one. Murasaki backs Fukuzawa here: the "everyone" pushing toward management has no mouth, no name, no argument behind it.